6 Habits that Will Make You Loser
“Associating with winners may not make you a winner, but associating with losers will definitely not make you one.”
― Jeffrey Fry
Everyone has their own set of goals which are absolutely different from others, and the way how they achieve them is also having some conflicts. In fact, the science to achieving what you want and who you want to be is not so much learning the art of goal setting and great planning. It has much more to do with your habits that are holding you back right now and make you lose. These are basically the part of our routine, including our way of thinking and things we do both consciously and unconsciously that will wreck and ultimately spoil achieving our aims and destinations.
HEY…? What are you waiting for…?
Do you really want to destroy yourself? Or you want to destroy your bad habits?
YES, MY DEAR…!
Ask yourself before it is too late.
Just remember a simple little hack that,
“Only you can change yourself, no one can do it for you at any cost.”
You need to take a little start by making an effort in changing your thinking pattern, if you don’t want to be a loser anymore. In essence, you must make sure yourself that you are not following the theory that says a person can’t do anything about their lives because all failures are either enemies, intrigues or destined to be. Don’t forget…! This theory is absolutely adopted by true losers.
Additionally, you have to let go the repeated patterns of “if I do…, I’ll be successful or happy….” way of thinking as it does exactly the opposite.
6 Habits of being Loser
Now, what follows is a list of things that you shouldn’t do. If you have one of these bad habits, don’t worry, no one’s perfect. Just replace this habit with a good one.
Your dream goal doesn’t get stuffed into your schedule. Clear your schedule to make the energy and time. Productivity doesn’t really happen with trying to do all the tiny things at the same time. Multitasking is not for the big goal. It distracts from the critical ability to focus and be present. So, hold on…! Just do one perfect thing at a time as your dream goal is not subject to other people’s preferences.
Focus on Past:
When you focus on who you’ve been in the past and your failures, you stuck. Forgive yourself, and forgive others. Free yourself from worthless chains. Genuinely find it in your heart to forgive. Set aside time to analyze and meditate on forgiving mistakes. You are doing yourself and your ability to do great things the chance you need and deserve. Remember one thing that you are growing and learning. So, MOVE ON…!
Give in Easily to Other People:
You may be a hard-worker, you may have the best ideas, you may be exceptionally talented, but if you let yourself be arm twisted by others as your potential will not be realized to its fullest. You could be pushed into doing something you don’t like to. So, start to practice saying ‘NO’ to them. There is seriously nothing wrong with it. When someone asks you for a favor or your time, weigh in on how that might distract from what matters before you say ‘Yes’.
Focus on Negativity:
A loser is always a poor judge of the choices he makes. He finds negativity in Positivity. He sees flaws in perfection. He finds a problem in every opportunity. He is a troll looking for failure as an outcome to justify his lack of action. He thinks that others are lucky enough for these achievements, and then escape from the opportunity.
Make complains and Excuses:
One of the highlighted signs of a loser is that he always makes lame excuses and complains even in a crystal clear situation. In fact, nothing is good in the sight of losers. Instead of identifying ways to make their life better, they keep complaining every day. So, try to be sensible. Think about it. It will help for sure.
Always Blame Others:
The perfect loser never takes up the responsibility of any reaction to an action because they cannot handle the pressure and don’t know what is their responsibility. Losers are basically weak mentally and emotionally. Hence, they blame everyone else in their life by not taking any responsibility to turn this negative situation into a positive one. When a person understands himself and knows himself first what he is capable of or how he can make a thing possible on his own with the help of the internal and external resource that he owns, he will gradually stop blaming or finding faults in everything that does not work in favor.
Now, in my opinion, I just want to conclude with a few words that ‘LOSER’ is just a label or tag, which the world is full of. It all just comes down to attitude and how you handle it is probably more important than winning. I mean you learn more from losing than winning. So, take it with manners then you are truly a winner and able to remove the stigma of failure.
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